And Then You Kissed Me, II
November 24, 2006What a great song by The Cardigans. A song that took a few weeks of listening to grow on me, but now, it might be one of their best. Chilling, just chillingly cold.
Slow dancing tight
My barring heart and I
Your name used to taste so sweet
Then you beat the love right out of meIt’s a mystery how people behave
How we long for a life as a slave
When he kissed me I gladly gave in
To a fight nobody could winMan, he left me blue
And if I could I would do it too
I tell you now like I told you before
Love is a powerful forceAnd it’s a mystery how people behave
How we long for a life as a slave
And tumble into any open arms
That will only ever do you harmOh, you you it’s always you
The best kisser that I ever knew
True love is cruel love
Not much to be proud ofNerve-wrecking acrobatic backwards bend
All for a happy endIt’s a mystery how people behave
How we worry ourselves to the grave
When he kissed me I lost everything
Then I got up and did it againOh you you, it’s always you
The hardest hitter that I ever knew
True love is cruel love
Not much to be proud ofAss-kissing mercy-missing faithless friend
All for a happy end
I’ve never seen a song tell so well the powerlessness women victim of husband agressions must feel. There are two especially chillingly direct rhymes in this song (I made them bold). However, the song is also filled with less obvious hints at the subject; for instance, the man, he left me blue/and if I could I would do it too is especially subtle and telling; women in this situation often want to leave, they see that what their husband is doing is wrong, but they still cannot leave (if I could I would do it too), because they still feel a lot of love (Love is a powerful force).
Great song. Go listen to it. The Cardigans, “And Then You Kissed Me, II”.


I had the exact same feelings. When I actually listened to this song, I thought it was so powerful and emotional…not only for victims of physical abuse but also emotional and psychological abuse. I feel like this song tells a part of their story. It’s as if I can almost play it all out in my head to this song.
Comment by Sam — February 23, 2007 @ 3:14 am